Relationships
The Sucky Job Survival Guide
One of my clients just scored the job interview of a lifetime. We both went a little crazy with excitement when she got the good news (woo hoo!). My client–let’s call her Anne–is in a terrible job right now; one that stresses her out to the point where she’s been feeling ill for weeks. Not…
Read MoreSay What? 3 Ways to Stop a Critic in Her Tracks
We’ve all heard the advice, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” So why do people feel the need to share their snarky judgments, back-handed compliments, and cutting put-downs? Screw turning the other cheek! When a critic sets her sights on you, use these tactics to stop her in…
Read MoreThe Green-Eyed Monster Strikes Again: Handling Jealousy
I’m in a mastermind group of other coaches, and we often share our triumphs and struggles on Facebook. Whenever one of my coaching friends gets a new client or sells out her program, I’m always there cheering her on and patting her on the back. But sometimes…sometimes I don’t feel so happy for my friends…sometimes…
Read MoreAre You Pregnant? Dealing With Well-Meaning People
Some people just don’t know when to shut up. We’ve all experienced well-meaning people. They’re the ones who are trying to be nice, but they end up insulting us. Watch this short video to learn how to handle well-meaning people so you’ll keep your cool instead of punching them in the face. Click here to…
Read MoreYou Are the Leading Lady of Your Life
I’m a huge movie fan, so of course I’m excited about the Academy Awards this Sunday. I once had a chance to tour the factory that makes the Oscar statues as well as many other awards. Sadly, I was unable to sneak one into my purse. I love how movies can take you into another…
Read MoreWould You Please Shut Up?
I hate to be the one to break it to you but…no one cares. Seriously, no one cares. No one cares about your dramas, how sick you are, the fight you had with your husband, how much you spent on your new car, or who you think is out to get you. We’re tired of…
Read MoreWhat Dumbo Taught Me About Love-Hate Relationships
The other day, I was watching the classic Disney animated film, Dumbo. If you’re not familiar with the movie, it follows the story of a baby elephant with enormous ears. Amazingly, he’s able to fly with the help of a magic feather…but is it real or some kind of trick? I’m a huge Disney fan,…
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